To be honest, ATA is written for the unfaithful/wayward spouse..Spring writes directly for that person, so you may find it hard to stomach at times...she oozes sympathy for ww spouses.
The content is excellent, but if you are the betrayed spouse you may find some of it hard to take without your stomach turning.
Not Just Friends is much better in my opinion, though both is better than either one alone.
The Relationship Rescue by Phil McGraw is also excellent, its very much the same material as divorce remedy, but he caters to people in a more step by step approach compared to MWD's detailed conceptual approach.
Dr Phil lays things out Step 1, Step 2, etc...MWD isn't that hard headed about it...its really up toyou what style you like, both books again are excellent and reinforce each other quite well.
