H had 3 year affair and I never knew!

[happycamper]

Jeff - thanks for your support. It amazing that a group of strangers from the other side of the world have been so kind and encouraging, have given up their time to write to me and give me their thoughts.

Think I just feel like the black sheep a little because I am letting this happen... Ha! I can't win - if I think I made half the decision I feel bad for not trying harder, if I think it was basically all up to H I feel like the biggest failure.

Think of the nice things... new ring, new name, being a Miss, H has agreed to look after the children for a week so I can go on holiday by myself. Some of my married friends are quite jealous... hmmmm.