Trouble on the lake erie shore #3

[Bridgestone]

Hi Neil
Sorry I was really not trying to swing a 2 x 4. Just shine some light. I don't know what it is to your wife... that was just my POV of your words and how it touches on something that resonates with me & my sitch with my H.

Now... your next question. if you want me to?

One of her biggest gripes was that i was self-centered..... so on that note, i'm not sure how to talk about it without making excuses or explaining away the behavior..LOL..that's all. and that's really what i've been looking for...a way to do that without it sounding like an excuse or expaining away the behavior... that make sense?

I'd be happy to tell you what I would want to hear & have heard from my H that has me at least back into counseling with him at this point, with no promises of a M, but just better communication.

I'll leave the ball in your court as to if you want some more from me

sorry again for the sore noggin.
Peace