Just one more thing, focusing on the bedtime goal, have you taken any steps with this? Also, are you usually in the same room before she goes to bed and she just gets up and leaves or are you in separate rooms doing your own thing?
You know, and this is just me, if I were you I would not do the note thing tomorrow. Leave them up there though. Let her wonder, you don't want to bombard her and for her to get to the rolling the eyes stage. Keep it fresh...
