Trouble on the lake erie shore #3

[Neilh23]

and to be honest bridgestone...we didn't go to counseling together (yet.....fingers crossed) but we are going individually. We haven't exactly shared any thing thats come out of that yet.....mainly because i'm not sure how to...at least on my end. One of her biggest gripes was that i was self-centered..... so on that note, i'm not sure how to talk about it without making excuses or explaining away the behavior..LOL..that's all. and that's really what i've been looking for...a way to do that without it sounding like an excuse or expaining away the behavior... that make sense?