happycamper: He has no intention of changing, and he has no intention of staying with me. I guess that's something I suppose. At least I don't have to try and work through this. Has anyone else had any experience of this kind of infidelity? I would like to know how they handled it. Also wondering if I should move forums (or websites even?!) as I am not DBing.
I haven't experienced the kind of infidelity you have but as for being here, its your choice, I'm here to listen and learn, I'm resigned to the fact that my W is gone, that D is in my future, she is so wraped in herself, what she wants, that the kids and myself are just a second thought. (I'm not the best DB'er - I was willing to try DB'ing but W not willing to give up OM - so bye bye)
You can still get support from others here. don't know where else you could find the type of good people that you find here.
I keep telling myself, there has to be a reason this has happened, That I know its not my fault, I did everything and more to make her happy and she basically did what she wanted. It started to hurt us financially and I'll be glad to distance myself from her and her problems (which she is unwilling to address)
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
