Oh, another thing to add: I gave H a book entitled, "Our Love Story". It had sentence starters and blanks, etc. for him to write his feelings about our past, etc. He had once said that he always had so many feelings for me all along but just never said them. I thought this would help. Well, he comes into the bedroom a couple nights ago and I could tell he was sad, possibly crying and I asked him about it. Finally, he tells me how he can't fill that book. He said he doesn't remember any good loving things he did for me in the past, nothing romantic, .......he said he sees even more clearly how he never gave me what I needed. I said that I must not have "done it for him" and that I must not have given him what he needed either. Then, we just layed there depressed.
