I would have kicked him out as soon as he said he couldn't give her up which was in the first month of my finding out and taking a stronger approach. Remember this was 2 years ago that I found out and I did all the crying, begging, pleading, moral talk, family, talk, money talk. You name it, I tried it. I din't come here until 3.5 mths ago. Wish I had found it sooner, but I can't change that, I can just go forward.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory