I've come full circle/LTA & MLC 7/8

[gForce]

This week - your court date is Friday, isn't it? Is that what you mean about getting it all over with? What do you have going on this week?

[kat727]

I don't want to go to the court again. If this is going to happen, let's just be done with it. Plus taking him off of things, I had held out hope and so hadn't taken him off of anything and now it looks like I will need to start doing that as well.

I don't have too much going on this week. I have C on Wednesday and then movie night on Saturday. Other than that, nothing much.

kat

[lodo]

Hey kat,

remember - it's a business deal at this point. You need to take care of yourself so get his name off things. You should have done that a while ago.

lodo

[karen43]

Sure will. I just got back from Book Club. I guess myself and two others were the only ones that liked the book. Still had an interesting discussion though.

It is really hot and muggy. S15 and I just hung out and watched tennis/Harry Potter during the afternoon. This next week has got to be better or I guess if there is more bad stuff coming I should hope to get it all over with now?!

kat

We watched Harry Potter yesterday too! What book did you read/are reading? I've got to join a book club too; that sounds like fun!!! Karen

[kat727]

We read The Time Traveler's Wife. We are going to read fast food nation next month and have our meeting at a local McDonalds! This wasn't my choice and usually not the type of book I would read, so we will see.

As far as taking H's name off...he has never been on my car title. I have to take him off of insurance and AAA and a couple of the cards where he is an authorized user. I won't take him off of those cards that are jointly in our names but I might see if I can remove mine. Like I said I was just holding out hope and there doesn't look like any reason why I should be so, here I go.

kat

[hopeful4her]

Keep your head up. We know that you have an inner strength. You will come out just fine on the other side. The process of changing all that stuff must suck. I am hoping to never have to get there, but....

She holds the key.

[LL44]

I second hopeful's post. Its hard, but you will get through it, my friend.

[gForce]

I just got the car insurance bill, and wouldn't you know W's old vehicle was still on it -- the one she traded in and doesn't even own any more. She told me she was going to cancel it. Sigh! All these business details can be a real pain in the butt. But it's just business.

[kat727]

oh, my life has become about nothing but business? Or I should say that is how it feels. So lwb has moved but I just don't feel up for it, don't know that I ever will. Maybe they should come up with a "finally feeling good" site. I am sure it would get lots of visits but would anyone really "be" there?

kat

[gForce]

No, that's not all your life is. That is all this logistical stuff is. But your life isn't defined by the logistical stuff, and it isn't defined by H. Your life is whatever you make it. This stuff you have to deal with is just stuff in the way.