I agree with Beth, you cant' save a man from himself, he does soudn like he's addicted, but no one but him can change that. Are you still questioning if you should go forward with the S/D? what choice has he left you? none. A councelor I used to see asked me at the time stbx left if he only had 1 ow or if he had other encounters, and told me there is a difference between having an indiscretion and being a womanizer.
Your H has lost himself, sin pulls you in so bad after you reject your concience's pleas that it stops talking to you. He had lost sight of himself, and when a person doesnt love himself he has no love to give to anyone else.
Hugs hugs)))))))))))))) your M wasn't a joke, you kept to your vows and now you have 4 wonderful children and your whole life ahead of you, he's the one with the problem luv, not you. Praying for you)))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
