tough. not sure what I'd do other than pray and think about what you MIGHT say.
Usually when I had something that I wanted to say I decided NOT to say it unles a PERFECT opportunity presented itself.
Many times that opportunity would come and I would see the natural opening to say what I wanted to say. Many times it wouldn't and I would keep my feelings to myself.
Just be in tune to your H and the conversation. Don't push anything, but if you feel a natural opening then I would go for it.
Good luck.
BFM
There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you. David Burns, Intimate Connections