I always thought she was OW too in that song, it referes to her hoping that "she' doesn't call and he has to leave, I assumed the she he was leaving for was his wife and the woman was asking him to stay and be with her instead.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009