You know lodo, I always have admired you. You have always stayed friends with your W regardless of what was going on. It takes a big man to do that (and I am not talking about weight lol!). I dont' think realizes what she has gotten herself into. I know my H doesn't get it either. I want to eventually be friends with my H. It is hard losing your spouse and your friend at the same time.

I do find it funny in a way that she did all her communication through email. What would she have done 20 years ago? Yikes...talk to you in person???

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08