H had 3 year affair and I never knew!

[happycamper]

Could he be addicted to sex? This doesn't sound like the run-of-the-mill infidelity. If this is the case, he would need professional help, and he would need to decide, for himself, to seek that help.

He did contact SAA and they were happy to have him, but he never did anything about it. He does need help, but at the moment he quite likes the way he is. This is one of the reasons I agreed with him to call it a day.

This really sucks for you, but at least, you are getting some of the truth. And, that really can set you free.

You are so, so, so right!!

Thanks for replying...