No he is past stalling. Finally got all of his paperwork together, with the exception of the parenting class cert, which he will have in hand tomorrow and a W-2 from last year that he was "looking" for...he found it awfully quick when I told him I would just bring the tax return instead.
I still have the "New Car" guy around, still smells new but I am still kicking the tires No need to commit until the last "clunker is paid off" if you know what I mean. See there's a little soon to be divorced humor for us.
Turns out his little change of tune had more to do with his last GF dumping him and a few financial bumps that he would have been able to handle had there been two incomes instead of one. Purely selfish motivations, never really had anything to do with actually wanting to put our M back together. He was never on board with doing any of the personal work he needed to do so...to hell with him.
But now he has a new GF and Mommy & Daddy bailed him out of financial jam so he has lost any interest in me. THANK GOD! I don't need to second guess my decisions at this point. My gut told me leaving was best, and although I had doubts I am sure I made the right decision now as his actions continue to prove he has done nothing to change.
He is back to no doubts, no regrets etc.
Ironically I just found a bottle of wine with a special label from our wedding day that I had been saving, now I know when I am going to pop that sucker open...to toast to our divorce. Goodbye and good riddance. My we both find better mates to suit us.
How are things with you? Sounds like your H is still laying it on thick?
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
No need to commit until the last "clunker is paid off" if you know what I mean. See there's a little soon to be divorced humor for us. 