Well I have been over in the newcomers for a while. My wife is acting like she is having an MLC and she is definitely a WAW. I have contributed my share of faults in the M no doubt, but am willing to work on me for a better us.
Now I have this to deal with. We are still married and she is dragging her feet on the big D. But now I have discovered that there is a possible OM. I have no concrete evidence but all the signs point to yes.
She has been acting very strange of course by going out and partying all night long and some nights not even coming home. She has stayed at some guys house when she was out partying and knew that night she would not be coming home. The second piece I found was just a couple of days ago. My wife had set up a trip to go to California with "friends" to get away. So I was with the kids and was helping my D clean the house before I took them to the airport. I walked into my W's bathroom and on the floor there was a note to meet up in room 208 for a night of fun. Now this was not specifically made out to her but I found the note with a envelope for a quick check out from the hotel. #rd and most recent thing I found was a receipt for packs of condoms, massage oils and such for her trip to Cali.
All of this makes me sick and like I said there is no concrete evidence about OM. She has sworn that she is not with OM and before she left for Cali on my b-day she told me she was going to just get away and she was not going out there to do anything!
I guess I want to know should I confront her about these issues and tell her that I do not want to be some door mat that she can just walk all over! I love my W and want this to work but this just rips my heart out.
