My god! Same here!! Gosh, what a turnaround. Yes, dont lose your head, but thats incredible that she said that. She actually had a go at you for not telling her that you love her !!??? Then she wants you to love her. Or shes hurt to think you no longer love her. And the stuff about this is like a war and why are we getting D?? Wow, amazing!! I bet you will be booking a DB session over this one as I really am not sure what to say, things seem to keep changing. And it had looked so bleak at one point (although she was waaaaay to upset and angry to be done with you, she clearly still had buried feelings, under her anger and resentments). So I guess we could say she still cares?

It seems the reality of losing her D half the time is really really eating her up and she hadnt banked on that at all, which I guess is why she has been so viscious over the custody battle. She thought she could leave you and take D and you'd just get the one weekend in 2 that alot of Dads have to settle for. Truth is she misses her D terribly and can no doubt see that you are a good father.

So, how you feeling now then?? You must be quite pleased...

Ali x


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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