Thanks for your response. I understand where you are comming from. Your right about the "still hung on your wife thing". I trying to detach, but even after divorce....it is very hard.
I guess, I am very hurt about the issue, and I can't seem to understand how a person can be with you for 13yrs and then say to you such things as "We never got along"......WHAT!? AND say such things as "I don't want to be with you anymore" before she filed, and follow up by saying "NO, I am not with anyone...and/or I am not with anyone".......WHAT THE F...CK!?
Everyday, I have a broken record in my head that says.......THIRTEEN YEARS.......
anyhow, I appreciate your response....I am sorry that I may have gone off on a tangent....just needed to vent. Thanks.