It is appeasement to a degree. But it's taking me out of the role of the enemy. That's what the book suggests the husband does. I don't know - it feels like it's working better. I just don't think drawing a line in the sand right now is the way to go.


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.