It is appeasement to a degree. But it's taking me out of the role of the enemy. That's what the book suggests the husband does. I don't know - it feels like it's working better. I just don't think drawing a line in the sand right now is the way to go.
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.