Yup, the lectures about the predators are as much for me as you. I have to keep reminding myself these people are out there and I can't hate my W for falling for one.
It may also help you understand how your H made the choices he did as well. I am not saying it excuses them, but it may help you work through them ...these people just make the wrong road WAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too tempting.
It helped me to understand how easy it is to listen to these people and for these messes to show up...all it takes is for one designated driver to take a sip and before you know it accident city.
Keep workin on the mature detached female, if for no other reason...they are much sexier. lol
