Trouble on the lake erie shore #3

[pisces9]

Neil- ...my H was hanging out with all single poeple and this too is what led him to believe that marriage should be "fun" all the time and he wanted to be "happy"....well guess what...becasue of DB'ing and backing off, GAL'ing, etc...he was able to see that is aint so much fun after all...he told me this last thursday. He saw his single guy friends wanting to talk to girls and he made them leave the bar with him, he said his single guy friends want a cookie cutter of themselves and he now sees that this isnt what a marriage is made of.
at first I was annoyed that he was hanging out with single guys, but then i realized there was a plan for him...somehow he would get a lesson in all this.

I tell you this bc there is no way your wife can feel happy about being in the "singles" world again no matter how much she says he likes it...so please be patient and do not press her for anything. do not bring up the R right now...if you get a chance, only after she has brought up the R, drop a line or two here and there- but do not ask for anything in return.

She is getting her lessons from many paces right now- dont worry-her life is teaching her things everyday!

She will see this soon enough- then she has a choice to make ....

have a good day!