Hey Puppy - This is what I struggle with now. But it seems the closer I get to her - the more that I can say and she'll listen when it comes to the kids. Last night at dinner she said she was tired because she was busy all weekend. I said to her that it must be tiring to remember what times I have to get the kids to their games - that's very hard work - to which my neighbor replied yeah, what could you possibly be complaining about - you didn't go anywhere or do anything.
I am prepared for that question. We have had it out on many occasions throughout this regarding the kids. Everyone that knows her knows she is pretty thick-headed.
Anyway, I would love to have that problem right now. If you ever get a chance to read that book - it says the attitude of the H can make all the difference in the world. If I support her and accept her and what she's going through - then we can begin to connect. Hopefully that would lead to a quicker finish to this.
I am scared about the "crash" - but I guess it's inevitable.
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.