HI, JL..hope your day is better..if I could just jump in on a few things you mentiones..your h and your family..my distant(cousins) family whom we see maybe once a year..saw my h with the ff...called my sister..started assuming things..one of htier nieces work for the apartment complex h rented from..opened her mouth about that...our kids did not even know that he ws moving at the time..so needless to say my h is not too happy with my family nor am I ..support him 100% on this sep..he asked for the space and I respect that..if your family is not going to support whatever the outcome, I would hope that your h would be the priority.
My h also has no passion right now for me..no hugs, touches nothing..he totaly cut it all off over a year ago when things were very tense here...he is not involved with anyone..just has lost all interest..or maybe just with me. I am hoping that if we start to work on us, that that too will come back.
