Thanks FG, I guess i am just scared that no matter what I do it's the wrong thing...
I think todays text will be after he gets off work and be hope you had a good day!
This past year has just been so up and down...I just don't know where he is at with us....and it scares me to death
I agree if she/or anyone were important in his life, he would be talking with his atty...and i would have heard from mine
i think she is just available when he needs a fix
how is no response not a negative response...it makes me feel as if it is a negative response
what I don't get is why he seeing PIA again, last time he left her because she put a cigarette out on his...she's a nut case...but i guess that is good for me....
what kind of work do you do? besides being part time therapists to crazy insecure people like me?
hope your day went swell FG
christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
"i think she is just available when he needs a fix"
Isn't that what DAM do?
"how is no response not a negative response...it makes me feel as if it is a negative response"
You have not responded to either of mine to you. It is the perception of the messenger.. If you think its negative.. it will be. My take is.. it is only negative when he responds negatively. Even at that point I am gonna keep doing it.. until I am really sure.. its not working.
"what I don't get is why he seeing PIA again, last time he left her because she put a cigarette out on his...she's a nut case...but i guess that is good for me...."
So.. Are you better than the "Nut Case" or not? Make sure you are!! You should not have to work too hard.
"what kind of work do you do?"
I am in the TV Broadcasting biz. I am a IT/Broadcast Engineer. Lets just say I maintain a bunch of computers.. and users. I am a "fixer" at heart. You could say I DB stuff all day long.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
FG, so I sent the text "hope you had a good day" he immediately responded "no, I had a sh#t day" so I responded, "sorry to hear that, what happened"....now nothing? I think, I should have been simpler...like that sucks...or just sorry to hear you had a crap day.
At least it gives me a great idea for tomorrow...hope today is better!
thanks for all of your encouragement and support...it means a lot, and for checking in on me so frequently...you're giving me hope and helping me find hope in hopeless again
christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
