You are right.... You are FIRST there to love your friend... That is what a real friend is.... However, we do need to lovingly advise our friends.... Whether they want it or not..... That is an important part of being a friend..... I would not want someone to say later, "Why didn't you tell me ______." I clearly share how I feel and then drop it....
Back to the disease thing for a moment... A friend of mine in high school pointed out ANY sex is risky.... She said, "What if you and your girlfriend are both virgins pondering having sex? How can you be sure one of you does not have HIV or another disease from a blood transfusion or medical procedure?" It made me think... Even though the chances are slim in that case, they are still there.....
Take Care,
NMD
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