JL..how are things tonight! You are sure going through some rough emotions. As for the rings..my h took his off a few months after he moved out..it crushed me..I just had to ask if it meant that the m was over..he said no. I can't bring myself to take mine off..I am still m..for better or for worse..so until or if our m comes to an end, I will continue to wear them.When I sit and look at them memories of the reason I wear them come back and I have faith and hope that they will one day again be the symbol of our love and commitment. It is everyones personal choise if they wear them.

I still think not contact with your h..you both need space to sort and think..take the time for you..I know that sounds easy and when you are hurting it's the last thing you want..but it works..find one small thing that makes you smile, laugh, each day..do something special that makes you feel good. Know that you will survive with or without him .

Sue