I don't usually even look on here on weekends. It's fine to hang out with her. Your situation doesn't call for going dark. Yours calls for rebuilding. You need to be able to smile at each other. FWIW, my opinion is that you need to be able to act naturally around her. Can you do that? Just enjoy her company and quit worrying about whether it fits into some kind of DB cookbook.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
