(((Red))) Maybe it is time to set some limits...some boundaries. No unexpected visits. He needs to call first. If he is not living in the house, relinquish house keys.

Sometimes it is taking control of the little things that help. Although we cannot control anyone else, or the situation at hand, there are still small things we can control, and that is okay, and it helps tremendously.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..