that is exactly what they are saying when they say "maybe."
No it's not.
Them saying "Maybe" means nothing more than....
If I say maybe perhaps that will satisfy his/her incessant need for an immediate answer when I have none, and he/she will go away and leave me alone so I can get a few moments of peace in my head.
Your continued poking at the hornets nest is only going to piss off the already pissed.
Eventually they will pack up and move even further away from you.
Just be still.
Do not keep antagonizing them or yourself.
Shhhhh.....
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!