i work 3rd shift, so I slept alot. since I was tired all the time, I wasn't always lovey dovey. So with me being at work midnight to 8am, she's home alone every night with the baby and scared. well she started drifting away when her ex (her "first") came back after 6 years. He broke up with her and she never got over him. well he's back and that is what basically is causing the divorce. I got the "I need space" and "ILYBINILWY" typical answers. her mind is made up as far as I know. the OM "came back" to her and she's in love with him. (note: both of our families believe she has gone insane). she got pregnant after we were together a month, we got a place, then married, then bought a house. She said she doesn't want to be married, and she didn't think anyone would want her after she had a baby and got married. so now is her chance to jump ship
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
