To be here or not to be here

[Snow White]

Charming...does he insult you outright like this often?

Yes he does but as you mentioned below it is to get the intended "fired up" response. He then tells me I need to relax.

Slap my hands but I texted him after he left to say I wouldn't get dressed up either if all I was looking for was a troll.

Hmmm..i honeslty don't understand what you were trying to say there...

It was a nasty comment about OW - she is short fat and ugly. It was immature uncalled for and in the opposite direction of my goal.

If I understand correctly, you are a) still married, b) still want your marriage, and c) are still living in the same home as your H. HOW on EARTH does this indicate to anyone that you are romanctically available? lol

I am still married, I do still want my marriage - but am taking steps to end it because I cannot endure this any longer, I am not living in the same home as my H. He left 3 months ago this Sunday, since then he has spent 3 nights in my bed, and 5 nights - last week on my couch - the last 3 nights he has spent at his parents. The 3 nights prior to sleeping on my couch he slept in has car across the street. To my belief all other nights were spent at OW's house even though this is denied.