hey lodo, It is what it is.. my short hand for that.. IIWII. I have the sign above my kitchen sink.
I think the best way to act is that which your gut tells you is true to your values. No matter how this ends up, you have to live with how you acted through this.
It seems to me that you are 'shining that light back'. It is her choice what to do with that.
How's the garden coming along?
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.