And I found out that she had asked S16 if he wanted to go to an LSU/Kentucky football game with her and OM back in Oct the one weekend she had taken off to spend it with OM. Just another "script" move. Trying to introduce OM to her kids to complete the fantasy.
Ugh. That's horrible.
H4U, I'm normally VERY, VERY careful to get the kids involved, as I've posted to both you and others. But since your son already knows, and the two of you are communicating well about it and he is also confronting his mother, you may want to encourage him to NOT focus on his mother's infidelity, but rather on her DECEIT. "Mom, you always taught us not to lie. I think that's what hurts me more than anything else -- that you lied to me (and list the occasions)."
