Trouble on the lake erie shore #3

[Neilh23]

yeah...i know she's noticing...she's made several comments...and the dinner thing threw me for a loop a bit. i just didn't respond. My C and i actually talked about it (i had thought about asking her to stay for dinner that night anyways) and we agreed that it probably wasn't for the right reasons....

the difficult part is that when we first got together, she pursued me. I wonder if she wants me to pursue her......without seeming pathetic about it. LOL.

one thing i'm trying to figure out is how to tell her about some of my discoveries during therapy. Like i understand now where some of my behaviors came from......but i don't want ot seem like i'm making excuses or explaining away them....

its pretty evident now where they came from....watching my parents. You do what you know. It works for them. Didn't work in my sitch. obviously.