Rusty, does your daughter have a cell phone? Is it possible that he called her and you didn't know?
I agree, I don't understand how a parent cannot be involved on their child's birthday, that would bother me too. Maybe he felt that he shouldn't interfere.
Sorry for the argument. It's hard not to get into it with them, isn't it? But you must. If he feels like you're going to fight with him, every time he calls you, or you call him, he will not feel safe being around you, ya know?
((((Rusty))))
Married: 25 years Separated: 5 years Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24 Me: 53 H: 50
