Trouble on the lake erie shore #3

[Neilh23]

yeah, i'll check it out later today..

You're right, it is frustrating.... i did the best i could with what i knew at the time during my M.....i know so much better now.

good point about M. it did suck for her. i'm beginning to realize how little my needs were met too. I just wouldn't have walked away. Does that make me a better person? no. forrest told me i just didn't know how to change it. Now i do. that's where my frustration lies and that's why,IMHO, many of us LBS want another chance......

smartcookie said something very poignant (ok, she does all the time, but still).... both her and her H were afraid to ask for what they wanted because they didn't think they deserved it... both my W and I were in the same boat

what i find really annoying...is how on certain email websites....they make divorce out to be all hunky dory and that it's ok. talk about the media myths...good grief.