Flipper, I'm Catholic. Have been told by family, friends, counselors, lawyers and pastors to accept reality and move on. She is too stubborn to change course. Strangely my kids have been a blessing in that they've been quite happy so far. But I have 50% custody so it breaks my heart to not have them some of the time - but I think they need their mother too and she is not a bad mother, but a messed up W. Thanks for your prayers. I have a book by Joel Osteen called "Your Best Life Now" that I'd bought for my W a while back since she like listening to this guy on TV. But she has now given up religion and has stopped going to church.
