By and large, you're talking to a lot of victims of divorce in these forums. As such they did not (or do not) want divorce, but it is/was being thrust upon them by their wayward spouse.
If you truly believe, as I do, that divorce is abhorrent to God and, as Jesus put it, a concession to our hardened hearts, I kindly suggest that you put your words into action and help seek reform in our culture and in our laws. No Fault Divorce Laws are a travesty, and the legal system no longer supports marriage and families.
Believe me few here want or wanted divorce, but regrettably the world we live in makes it all too easy for unilateral divorce.
