phil, stop pushing her. stop texting her. stop feeling sorry for yourself, get up and get to work.you have had more advice than anyone i have seen on this site in 9 months. listen. start doing . your wife has no idea what she wants, just like mine. you are filling in her blanks for her. stop it. let her fill them in. let her start any correspondance. be friendly, stay away from r talks.give her space. she needs time to figure this out. stop hounding her. she will never be able to deal with this if she has no space. stop sabotaging your own efforts. this takes time and patience, do you have the moxey to do this? talk is cheap, actions speak louder than words.sometimes doing nothing is fighting. stop fretting about what she is or is not doing. i know it is hard, i fall into the same trap. keep focused on the goal. it is a marathon. you must pace yourself.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
