Officially Here Now

[mishka422]

Chris,

That had to be terrible for you to hear your baby sobbing and wanting to come home and knowing that you can't just go down the street and get her.

Your H is being completely selfish. All of these WAS's are. They don't want to think about what their actions are doing to their families because then they might have to rethink their decisions. They don't want to do that because what they decided is final (in their sick minds). Why rethink something you have no intentions of changing.

My H does the same thing. I have decided that he can have what he wants. I don't want him back. He's sick and twisted and I can't have that in my life.

You are in a much stranger place that I am. Your H is so far away and your kids are so young. Was this sleepover idea his or yours? I'm curious, what made you agree to it? It's not as if you're D'd and this would be part of a custody agreement.

Just trying to figure out how people come to these decisions.

You make sure that you are doing nice things for yourself Chris. Eat ice cream and listen to your favorite music really loud. That always cheers me up!