There is no way your H didn't understand you not wanting him to come into the house without telling you. He is trying to hang on to what control he has.
He says he doesn't do email. Why can't he learn? You could try to call instead. How does it work when you do that? He wants to blame everything on you. Not surprising, but pretty frustrating.
I don't think I'll post to Phil again, or even read his thread. I have a hard enough time keeping up with people that want to listen!
