She was still working for him. He said he didn't want to fire her because he was worried she would file sexual harassment. He said he thought she would quit on her own. He gave me his word that he would not see her outside of work. He told me this back in April when I confronted him and her about her calling his cell phone while I was at his house. I told him it was over and to stop calling me and this was when he told me he wanted to work on things, that we could make it. Initially he told me he would fire her, but then changed his tune that he wanted her to quit on her own. I was so blind, I just wanted to believe him and it work out so badly.
We were doing really well. We were spending a lot of time together. We even spent time camping the weekend prior to the 4th at the lake.
The OW's exH called me a couple of times from April-June telling me that his DS10 said that the "boss" hadn't been over in a long time. So I'm pretty sure that he wasn't seeing her outside work then. My DD20 who lives with him said he was home all the time.
Things were going so good until she called out in distress for him to help her move some things out of her house. He then caved into the temptation again.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
