Your H is unfortunately in a completely narcissistic mode right now as well. My $.02: Hire the best L in town, file and ask for everything, including the $300/hr fees you'll be paying and alimony for life. Doesn't matter if you can get it, scare some sense into him. It'll be fun to watch him squirm for a while anyway.
Best wishes, SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread
