Well I need to quit reading into all of this but the fact remains there are several things that point to her being with another man. I am just going to act "as if" as much as I possibly can and avoid bringing this up to her.
She did contact me this morning and asked about the kids and if I have talked to them. I was still upset this morning so the conversation was very one worded by me. I just gave simple answers and showed no emotion, it probably came across as me being pissed and I admit I was. I handled the whole conversation wrong in the fact that I did sound pissed but the short answers I think was the correct response.
That is all you can do brother stay your course for yourself & your kids. No emotion it's tough not to let 'our' feelings show through, but you must find it within yourself to take the higher road, stay true to yourself and your commitment you will come out a better person for it. The way you were feeling short answer were probably best for the time being. AS long as you weren't short or curt you probably didn't do to much. Regroup take a breathe get some rest, try and turn off your mind, easier said than done but you must. You can do it.
