Thanks Sara, it is just suprising to me I guess when I am still married (yes I know my H has left me) and he is still married and part of my extended family that this is the least bit normal for him to ask me out.

Me~34
H~38
D6.5

EA/PA-DEC.07

Moved out~Apr.13,08
Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08
No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009