Thanks everyone. I talked to my best friend for the first time today. I call her my best friend, but really we rarely talk, but whenever we do it is like we haven't been apart at all. She is a woman's counselor and she sounded just like all of you. She said that she was amazed how strong I am through all of this. I still have trouble seeing that in myself. I just did what I need to do even though I didn't want to do it.
I just avoided a big confrontation with H. The shower in the basement (the one he uses because we only have a bathtub without a shower) was leaking all over the floor and making a huge mess. So my Dad came over and turned off all of the water supply to it. I knew this was going to PO H is a major way and so I made my Dad call him and tell him. I just didn't have the patience to listen to H tell me how mean I was and I couldn't turn off his shower.
I just keep telling myself 10 more days...10 more days.... H still hasn't moved a thing out of the house.
I really like myspace because I chat with my friends from collect on there. I have never tried fb. Anyone here on myspace?
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08