I have been reading through your thread and I am impressed by your strength and the changes you have made!
I am concerned about your girls. Is ther any way that they could come stay with you after your talk with W? If not, is there a family member they can go to? I am concerned that you cutting off her finances is going to cause her to go completely over the edge before she crashes. I am worried about the fallout and the girls. I do believe you are on the right track with your plans, but since the kids are with her, I am afraid she will not be above using them to manipulate you. Gambling addiction is a very real disease and she is obviously deep into her addiction.
I am praying for God to strengthen you when you go to speak with her this evening and for him to protect you and your girls from the repercussions of your wife's addiction.
SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7