Chris,

I just finally got caught up on your sitch of the last week.

You sound exactly like me a few months ago. It stinks to feel like you have no worth to the one person you love with all your heart. I understand far too well. Be glad that there is no OW, trust me, that is MUCH worse. To know you were dumped for some cow is NOT good for the self image either. \:\(

Keep doing things for yourself that you enjoy. Read trashy romance novels, watch silly movies that your H didn't like, eat ice cream for dinner. Get your girlfriends to go out to a movie with you.

We 37 year old wives of cops have to stick together!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!