Originally Posted By: Gypsy
... helped me realize I had to change my parenting style once spouse left. I'd always been the narc, strict, telling them what to do. Once he left, I realized I had to be accessible, not a pit bull; create a place they want to be at...


Hi Gypsy! I've done 180's in this area also. I am more accessible also....

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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