Do you mean delay working on the house? I cannot delay the money and talk tonight because they need the money for tomorrow morning so I have to go there actually in about an hour.
I want her to stew on what I tell her for the next week. I'll then start working on the house after she's had time to think about what I've said. I don't plan on contacting her after I talk to her tonight unless it has to do with the kids.
So tonight I'll drop the financial bomb on her and tell her how hurt I am and why. Not as an attack, just as a statement of my emotions and why I feel the way I do and why I have to cut her off. I'll tell her that I as well as her family are there to support her 100%, but she is the one who has to wake up to what she is doing and help herself. Then I'm dark for the next week, while she has all this to dwell on. I hope it causes a breakdown for her to reach out.
- Scott
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